The platform in Delhi stood wrapped in fog, the kind that blurs outlines and slows time. I pulled my jacket tighter as the train prepared to leave, toward lush, beautiful greenery of South
I noticed my co-passenger as the train rolled forward. We exchanged a small smile. She too was travelling to Kerala. By the time the first station passed, conversation found us naturally. She spoke about life in the city about long workdays, crowded metros, and the unspoken pressure to always be available. For many young people, she said, exhaustion has quietly become normal.
As stations passed, her story unfolded. She spoke of targets that kept increasing, of being praised for staying late, and of weekends that never really felt like weekends. There was fear too, fear of slowing down, fear of falling behind, fear of being replaced. Like many young adults, she was doing everything “right,” yet constantly felt inadequate and tired.
This trip, she shared, wasn’t carefully planned. It was a response to months of ignoring her own signals. A short visit home. Time with family. A chance to breathe. “I don’t want to quit,” she said softly. “I just want to remember who I am outside of work.”
Night fell, and the train moved steadily through darkness. In the quiet between stations, her words lingered. The journey felt symbolic moving away from noise toward something gentler. The cold slowly gave way to warmth, just as urgency began to soften into clarity.
By morning, the landscape changed. Greens replaced grey. The air felt lighter. When Kerala finally welcomed us, she looked calmer, grounded. As we stepped off the train, she said, “I hope I go back kinder to myself.” It felt like a promise many young people are still learning to make.
Sometimes, strength is not about endurance. Sometimes, it is about choosing to pause.
A Thought to Carry Forward
Today’s youth are growing up in a world that never truly stops. Expectations are high, rest is often postponed, and success is measured by constant productivity. Comparison is only a scroll away. Behind the “I’m fine” replies, many young people struggle silently with anxiety, burnout, and self-doubt, while trying to appear functional. The pressure to always “hold it together” takes a real emotional toll.
These challenges are not a personal flaw they are human responses to a relentless culture of achievement without rest. Developing emotional resilience means recognizing limits, understanding emotions, and being able to pause without shame. Pausing does not mean losing direction. It means protecting your strength, listening to your needs, and building the capacity to continue with balance, not burnout.
A Thought to Reflect On
Are you listening to your exhaustion, or pushing through it?
What would choosing yourself look like right now?
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Pragmana Foundation supports youth through mental health awareness, counselling, and safe spaces for reflection and healing. We work to remind young people that seeking support is not a setback, it is a step toward sustainable growth and well-being.